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Lightning_EXE - November 8, 2007 10:31 PM (GMT)
I've liked this girl for around 2 years now, and I wasn't too sure if she was interested in me. I've always been kinda shy around the girls I like. This year may be the last year I could ever have a chance with her so I am very concerned. I've tried telling her my feelings, but every time I do, something goes wrong. Help me TFS, what should I do? Is this a sign to move on, or should I keep trying?

Mettic - November 8, 2007 10:48 PM (GMT)
Try to tell her that you like her, if it fails before the end of the year...
Move on.
If you don't fallow my instructions you, my firend...
ARE A PUSSY.

Alastor Blackrose - November 8, 2007 11:02 PM (GMT)
Yeah, great advice, telling the person with low self-esteem that he's a pussy.

Anyway. Just relax and and go with the flow. If it happens, it happens. Just keep pursuing her if you want her want her, and if nothing happens, it's not that big of a deal.

Streea Barra - November 8, 2007 11:22 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Mettic @ Nov 8 2007, 03:48 PM)
Try to tell her that you like her, if it fails before the end of the year...
Move on.
If you don't fallow my instructions you, my firend...
ARE A PUSSY.

. . .

You know what?

Warned.

Anyways, go with what Alastor said. Relax, feel natural. Loosen up. If it was meant to be, you'll think of something.

Edwurdo - November 8, 2007 11:37 PM (GMT)
While I'm probably not the best person to be giving advice on this kinda thing since I'm still single, but go try and talk to her

I know it may be hard (Trust me, I used to have a terrible sense of self-worth) but if you can take the time to talk to her like you would anyone else, and get to know her better, you'll feel a bit more confident and hopefully you'll be able to tell her how you feel

It's kinda worked for me before (The girl in my case accepted how I felt about her and wasn't mean or anything about it. But she didn't want a relationship) I'm sure it might work for you too

Don't worry if she doesn't accept or doesn't want a relationship. It's not a huge deal in the end and you're more then likely to find other girls you may like more

~ You're not a pussy if you're not confident enough to try and tell her by the way

DisgruntledPostalEmployee - November 8, 2007 11:50 PM (GMT)
Look at it this way: If you find out someone likes you, you feel great, even if you don't feel that way about them.
So the absolute worst that can happen is that you'll cheer her up and get nothing in return. Which, let's face it, ain't too shabby.

At the end of the day, if it's something you really want to happen, go for it.

Bolts - November 9, 2007 12:04 AM (GMT)
I'd say just ask her out and see how it goes from there. Honestly the worst thing she can do to you is say 'no' or the more popular "well I kinda had plans this weekend story." Even if that happens then my friend remember this simple rhyme.

-SCREW YOU WORLD BRING ON THE NEXT GIRL!

Lightning_EXE - November 9, 2007 01:36 AM (GMT)
Thanks guys! You're a real help, I'm gonna try asking her tomorrow! I'll tell you guys the result :D

Bolts - November 9, 2007 01:39 AM (GMT)
Another piece of advice though lightning.....don't walk up to her out of the blue and ask her. Talk for about 5-10 mins THEN ask her.

-end advice reel 18

Lightning_EXE - November 9, 2007 01:45 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (Bolts @ Nov 8 2007, 08:39 PM)
Another piece of advice though lightning.....don't walk up to her out of the blue and ask her. Talk for about 5-10 mins THEN ask her.

-end advice reel 18

oh don't worry my friend, I plan to ask her while walking home :)

Bolts - November 9, 2007 01:50 AM (GMT)
oh ho ho

-so he's got a crush on the girl next door does he?

Lightning_EXE - November 9, 2007 02:16 AM (GMT)
OH yeaaaaaaaaaah~

8D

Mettic - November 9, 2007 02:21 AM (GMT)
*In RVB Tucker voice* Bow Chika Bow Wow.

Bolts - November 9, 2007 02:48 AM (GMT)
Now is she as cute as the girl in the movie?

-if so then Godspeed my friend.......

Lightning_EXE - November 9, 2007 02:59 AM (GMT)
She is bolts, she is....

8D Happiness should be coming my way :)

Mettic - November 9, 2007 03:06 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (Lightning_EXE @ Nov 8 2007, 09:59 PM)
She is bolts, she is....

8D Happiness should be coming my way :)

It SHOULD.
But life might throw a rocket at you and by that I mean she turns you down and you go emo for 10 years then end up hanging yourself.
EDIT: Damn... I'm a fucking downer.

Cador_2004 - November 9, 2007 03:16 AM (GMT)
Mettic, for your own good, SHUT THE FUCK UP! You've already been warned once.

Iota - November 9, 2007 03:18 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (Lightning_EXE @ Nov 8 2007, 05:36 PM)
Thanks guys! You're a real help, I'm gonna try asking her tomorrow! I'll tell you guys the result :D

It'll be Densha Otoko all over again.

-Don't expect a movie deal, though.

EDIT:

QUOTE (Mettic @ Nov 8 2007, 06:21 PM)
It SHOULD.
But life might throw a rocket at you and by that I mean she turns you down and you go emo for 10 years then end up hanging yourself.
EDIT: Damn... I'm a fucking downer.


Warned again. Good show, prick.

Bolts - November 9, 2007 03:21 AM (GMT)
Another bit of Advice!!!!

D-d-d-d-don't s-s-s-s-s-s-s-s-s-stud-d-d-der

Lightning_EXE - November 9, 2007 03:39 AM (GMT)
d-d-d-d-d-don't w-w-w-worry I th-th-think I g-got it c-covered!

- Am I rite guyz?

Bolts - November 9, 2007 03:41 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (Lightning_EXE @ Nov 8 2007, 10:39 PM)
- Am I rite guyz?

Nope

- =P

nyrin II - November 9, 2007 09:23 PM (GMT)
I'm going to add in my final bit, because everyone else has already said something.

If you can't say it, then improvise. Do something that makes you feel a little more comfortable, and hope she thinks it's okay, and maybe your boost your confidence. It worked for me twelve hours ago, so why wouldn't it work for you?

Anyhow, that's all I got.

Venge - November 9, 2007 11:20 PM (GMT)
I think I'm late a day but I'd like to add something I don't think I saw anyone add. Key to asking girls asking girls out is C.O.N.F.I.D.E.N.C.E. Confidence. As well as a lot of things in life, if you act confident then she will think your confident. (Also goes with business interviews and other things.) Hey man, worst she can do is say no, right? I mean probably likes you enough not to be rude as hell to you, right? So don't worry man, just be prepared, and best to prepare yourself for the worst.

But hey, I hope and bet you will do fantastic.

Bolts - November 10, 2007 10:37 PM (GMT)
The suspense is maddening isn't it!?

Lightning_EXE - November 10, 2007 10:45 PM (GMT)
very, I'm still waiting for an answer >.<

Bolts - November 10, 2007 10:48 PM (GMT)
Wait so you asked....

-and she said nothing? [/sarcasm]

Winsom - November 15, 2007 01:44 PM (GMT)
She may say yes or no, or she even might not give you an answer at all.

BUT, if the situation goes way too long without her giving you an answer, you need to ask her again and say, "I would appreciate it if you could answer me right NOW." If you can somehow make that question not sound too pushy (which I think I made it too pushy, oop,. @_@) you'll be okay.If it really does go on for too long and she's leaving you in dire suspense, you need to confront her about it. That's all I'm sayin'.

Lightning_EXE - November 17, 2007 08:03 PM (GMT)
well guyss, News has come in and I almost forgot about this topic because of my happiness >.<

- That means she's officially my Girlfriend :O

Joe The Hedgehog - November 17, 2007 08:11 PM (GMT)
o mai

Congrats on the good news =)

Venge - November 17, 2007 08:21 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Lightning_EXE @ Nov 17 2007, 03:03 PM)
well guyss, News has come in and I almost forgot about this topic because of my happiness >.<

- That means she's officially my Girlfriend :O

Hey, congratulations man, I hope you guys stay together for as long as you can.

Wise_Idiot - November 17, 2007 09:11 PM (GMT)
*High five of Congratzness*

Awesome dude! Good luck, man, I wish you the best.

Bolts - November 17, 2007 10:50 PM (GMT)
We now congratulate you with!!!

-boot to the head

~and cake

AngelHalo - November 18, 2007 08:31 AM (GMT)
I've wanted to say something before to help you out, but couldn't think of what to say. Anyway, congrats on winning that girl you wanted to date.

-Btw, the cake is a lie.

Lightspeeds - November 18, 2007 07:00 PM (GMT)
Big congrats, may chuck norris smile upon your happyiness! :necoarc:

Winsom - November 21, 2007 04:59 AM (GMT)
I'm sorry that i didn't see the news sooner. Congrats! =D I hope you guys are happy together.




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