Title: Give and Take
icyunknown - July 7, 2003 01:16 AM (GMT)
me = hated when ppl think i used them :(
me = full of hatred (watch out )
chikichicky - June 28, 2003 04:15 PM (GMT)
I've never met anyone this selfish until now...I've been friends with 'her' for just over a year now and 'she' doesn't seem to even manage a thanks when I help 'her'. I don't mind in some ways because 'she's' helped me with a few things and I do appreciate it and am very thankful. I tell 'her' that! Seems like when I do something for 'her' though...my efforts go to nothing. It'd take my time and effort to help 'her' out as best as I can, but she'd never go out of her way just to do something for me. Now to the point: I feel completely used. Well, that's not something new :rolleyes:
Good friends are hard to come by these days out of the little I do consider as "friends". So be it, I don't know why I still continue helping 'her'...We ARE friends, but my feelings can take only enough pounding for a life time. GG :die:
FreeLancer - June 28, 2003 11:50 PM (GMT)
hmmmm.....every "her" there is in your lil speech, are you trying to tip us off that it's actually a guy? cuz i mean you've been helping me lately and um.... :shy:
chikichicky - June 29, 2003 01:18 AM (GMT)
It just doesn't end...I help this friend and 'he' just demands that I do something for 'him' without asking... well it sure seems like demanding to me... and when I tell 'him' to do something for me...'he' says maybe :( I'm officially sad... no one loves the bunny :(
maybe I like to mix pro-nouns? It could mean anything... :die:
SaTaN - June 29, 2003 01:29 AM (GMT)
dont worry, we here for joo :sparkle: :aww: :sparkle:
icyunknown - June 29, 2003 08:40 AM (GMT)
guess wht, dun help him, help the onez that u think its worth it ^^ dun wast ur time on something that u can never change or help it, if u know wht i'm saying
but yea good friends hard to come by, i know benson is not a good friend, but i to me vincent is a pretty good friend to me now i guess, we dun talk much but he helps alot, CAZ HE DRIVE ME BAK HOME LAST THURSDAY !!!! SO I WASNT LATE FOR JUDGING AT A TESTING !!!! so dam nice of him... i still can thank him enough... dam benson suppose to drive me bak home... oh well its the past now. hmm good friends.. i dun have much hehe n almost NONE consider me as a good friend caz i m icy, icy = cold.. hmm ya
pwnage pie mascot - June 29, 2003 05:57 PM (GMT)
:w00t: WE STILL LOVE YOU ICY!!!!!!!! :w00t:
Maarlo - June 29, 2003 07:38 PM (GMT)
all i know is gg and i better find out what im gonna do when i cant stay here anymore
chikichicky - June 30, 2003 02:29 AM (GMT)
seems that situation is common at this age...isn't it... -.-' I'd say layout the possibilities and plan from there. Don't know enough? Get information...a few phone calls here and there...ain't that hard o.O
Maarlo - June 30, 2003 05:50 AM (GMT)
BaSookaGirl - June 30, 2003 05:57 AM (GMT)
icy has a good point.
Good friends are definetely hard to find and I do know how you feel when you go out and do a nice favour for someone and they just turn their back on you.
It really is hard to find good friends. TO be honest with you, I don't really have that many friends but I feel that the only thing that matters in life is the ones that your close to.
I have a friend that always do nice things for me but she always backstabs me like a lil b*tch :rolleyes: But that's ok, I 'use' her as well.
chikichicky - June 30, 2003 06:28 AM (GMT)
That's not the way to go :( I wouldn't go as far as intending to use/hurt a person. I would rather just drop it, cut off contact and such. I'd never show it out that I dislike a person, but I'd just stop talking to them when they turn mean against me. It's sad, and to think you know the person...the person's your buddy/pal... then whammo!!! He/she had a personality change and is backstabbing you like there's no tomorrow. Then that's my cue to run far away and find some shelter to hide in. :crazy:
BaSookaGirl - July 1, 2003 01:33 AM (GMT)
Lol, it's different for me!! If I don't like the person I really show it...and trust me, I can be really b*tchy if I want to.
I've made this girl in my school cry once in a school debate. Until today she still hates me and I have a lot of fun b*tching and backstabbing her because she's such a b*tch for not letting me into the yearbook class!!
Let's just say the role models I look up to are pretty much badass chicks.
I never let anyone take advantage of me, I have too much self worth to let anything to stand in my way and make me depressed.
I like being badass, it's a part of me :) That is why most asian guys are afraid of me as well :laugh:
chikichicky - July 4, 2003 01:17 AM (GMT)
lol sooky ;) I'd take a guy on in TFC it'd be fun, but not 1v1 though....oh yeah I'm hella scared of that O.O
*chikichicky looks around
I do like who I am though. I don't enjoy being stepped all over...but being flexible pays off. Bad people will take advantage of it, Good people will respect it. So who cares about the other half. It's just when my friends don't give a crap and use me in all ways possible...is when I have doubts.
chikichicky - July 11, 2003 05:21 AM (GMT)
hate is bad :( love is good :D