The main reason for so many potential slayers even happening in buffy, Is due to how many times her friends kept bringing buffy back from the dead! In other words they basically just alterted the slayer line. Here is were you buffy fans can post your thoughts and/or comments about what it would be like if buffy never died.
You didn't look hard enough. It's on the first page of this section:
http://z1.invisionfree.com/forums/Powers_U...?showtopic=2780