my brother's going to marry her.... he's really going to marry her......

He just told me that he's going to propose to Kim......... *dies* She's going to be my sister-in-law......... the witch that stole him from us three times is going to be my sister-in-law......... I'm not sure if I want to scream or cry..........

OK, to anyone who knows the story of my brother coming home then running away three times for his girlfriend, this is the same girl...... and hes' going to marry her........ Holy Hera.... I think I'm going to have a heart attack............. JESSIE!!!!!! CALL ME!!!!!!!! I NEED BESTFRIEND TIME!!!!!!

Running away three times? How old is this guy?

o_____O

As horrible as this must be, and I agree that it is. You can't control love. =/

Maybe he'll change his mind?

Just hope for the best my dear, that's the best advice I can give .. > > ' '

21 on March 13th.

He just comes home, stays a few months living off mom and dad and then up and leaves unexpectedly. None of our family really likes her because she's the one that convinced him to leave each time. So yeah... my mom wasn't too thrilled that I'd helped him devise a way to marry a woman she doesn't want him to marry (and i'm kicking myself for turning on myself as well) but.... I don't know... I couldn't just outright say "no you can't marry her cause everybody hates her and I do too." cause i don't want him to hate me more than he already does...... I don't know..... Who knows. Maybe he'll have a change of heart before they actually get married...... I don't know.... okay, I have to go do my speech outline. More later.....

Eiie. The saga continues, ehy?

Does he have a job/home yet? Because it sounds like the bloke just needs to learn some responsibility. Lets face it, he needs to be able to hold down a job, an apartment and keep good relations with his family and his girlfriend before he gets married. What happens when she gets pregnant (because you know she will, and probably some time in the near future) and he has to support a family too?

He also should have thought of your parents and the girlfriend before he decided this, maybe clarified the reason he kept uping and leaving? Lets face it, if your parents don't like her she probably dosen't like them either, and for your brothers sake they all need to get along. Believe me it'll be hell for him if they don't.

But, hell, she might not accept!

Anyway. Good luck. If I were you I'd try to stay well out of the entire thing!

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Feef

K, I'm just gonna put it in my 5 cents cuz I was in almost identical situation with my sister. She also was 21 when she wanted to marry this guy. The problem was that she was studying overseas, so we couldn't even control her if we wanted to. The worst part was that even though my parents and me told her that we didn't like him, she ignored us. Now, when she got divorced, she blames us for never warning her and says that we never told her anything. People lose their heads over love, really. :dry: But you can't do anything.

In any case, best part is to talk to him. Like everyone said, let him know that you don't approve. I mean don't tell him that you hate her. Just say something like that you just don't approve. Thought it is really hard to convince someone.

So good luck. Just don't get him angry :P