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moonshadow - May 14, 2005 01:49 AM (GMT)
My boyfriend is incredibly sweet and gentle and showers me with gifts. But until just recently, I didn't really know what sort of guys I was into. As it turns out, I worship tall Asian guys with tousled hair, a good singing voice, and an open personality. About 20 minutes ago, I completely fell in love with one such guy. Unfortunately, it happened during my school talent show when he was playing the piano and singing a song which he had written for his girlfriend.
I had the guts to catch him after the show to congradulate him. He was very friendly, and I got to shake his hand.
But...he has a girlfriend. She's Asian, too - all his friends are. I'm only half Asian, and you can't really tell. I really like my boyfriend, but I'm completely in love with another guy who's probably nowhere near interested in me. De ja vou.

kagome-chan - May 16, 2005 01:49 PM (GMT)
Think long and hard about it. you hardly know him, he might not be as wonderful as you think. for now jsut wait and see what happens. You might find your boyfriend is just what you want.

P-chan - May 27, 2005 01:26 AM (GMT)
It's really just a matter of simple mis-use of terms. You aren't 'in love' with this stranger, you are just infatuated with him. Just force him out of your mind and focus on the boy who actually DOES love you and everything will be ok. :ph43r:

Samsus - July 14, 2005 01:09 AM (GMT)
Exactly. you may LIKE this guy, but that doesn't mean you LOVE him. "love" and "like" have two different meanings.

Plus, you don't know if your "boy" still loves you. If you went off like,"there's this OTHER guy i like, so I'm leaving you.", then there's no guessing what he would do if he thought it was all his fault.




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