Things are only as complicated as you make them.
And if you see things in shades of gray you may have a foggy mind.

How's that a debate? You just quoted two sayings :P

They're just what I was thinking at the time. Usually when I tell people either they get angry and disagree with me. Thought it might make for a debate since it usually leads to one with me.

well, it all depends on ppl's perception,

even the most simple of situations can be made complex by people who have nothing better to do than complicate matters further, usually involving someones best friend's cousin's roomate, who happened to run into this one person who aparently was at the same place when this situation took place, that we just found out is sleeping with the girl down the street :o. see not soo complicated

and thats just a simple explanation, try watching "days of our lives", or "bold and the beautiful" if u want extream complexity

as for seeing things in grey, it means ur thinking too much about other, prolly really minor cause to an event/situation, mainly in the form of "What If?" or "Could Have?". can't really debate that though, as kie said.

of course its just commonplace "seeing shades of gey" means ur mind is unclear.